LOSER!
In life, you can’t deny the fact that there are some losers living in this world. These people are normal people, like everyone else. When I was in my schooling years my teachers always says “There is no loser in life, only winners.” And I tend to believe in that phrase. Now I wanted to change that phrase “There are many losers in life, not all are winners”. It’s the fact, LEARN to ACCEPT IT! Working in the society is a different ball game and if you observed carefully, you will notice that there are truly losers out there. Let me tell you some happenings that I came across with and you might laugh because you also seen it before.
When I was in Sibu, I bumped into one of my old schoolmates. It’s been ages since I saw this guy. Then we greet each other and have a little chit chat. He told me his life wasn’t that good. He’s working somewhere (which I don’t know) and his salary is not sufficient to sustain his life. He told me his girl (which happens to be one of my friends) dumped him and he asked me for her contact number, so that he can persuade her back. For a moment, I pity him. After we finish chatting, my instinct told me he’s a loser, there’s no need to pity a person like him. He’s totally a loser. He should apply for a better job. I told him to resign his current job and look for another job with higher pay, but he insists with the reason “The boss is kind towards me” and therefore he doesn’t want to resign. I was like “BULL SHIT!”. If his boss is kind towards him, he should have given him a higher pay, and the reason he is kind towards him is because he is naïve and totally a good sucker to suck blood from. He is 30 years old, and he still thinks like a loser, dress like a loser, smells like a loser, talk like a loser and born loser. Someday, sometime, somewhere he will still be a loser if he doesn’t wake up and think like a winner.
There’s another person whom I get to know from my dad everyday stories and I’ve seen that man myself. The story goes like this, this man (Let’s call him Peter), is the only son of his family. His parents owned a coffee shop and had been operating the coffee shop business for a decade or so; and John was a gamble addict. Every day he did nothing except gambling ranging from mahjong to footballs. As days goes by, his bet went bigger and bigger every day, until one day, he falls. He was in thousands and thousands (I mean hundred over thousands) of debt. He doesn’t have a proper job, and therefore his parents use their savings, sold their only home, cars and lands to pay his debt. Their coffee shop which was located at the corner lot of the shop houses was forced to close down due to the rent that they can’t afford. And now, they move to a smaller space to continue to operate their coffee shop business to sustain their life. Almost every day, my father and I would have a morning tea at their shop, and I heard John’s dad complaining that John is still addicted to gambling and even worst of all he’s borrowing usurious loan. My god, John is 30+ years old and this guy (or should I say loser?) who made his family falls into a terrible position and he’s still gambling like there is no tomorrow. Some people just never change; loser will always remain as loser.
In life, we will meet losers and will be surrounded by them. Learn to keep away from them, because they are like vampires (sucker) sucking positive energy from us and make us look like one of them (sucker via loser). Don’t be a loser, BE a WINNER!
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March 31st, 2008 at 12:14 pm
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March 31st, 2008 at 1:51 pm
don’t underestimate the power of these people.
March 31st, 2008 at 2:45 pm
I know so called “losers” that fail in their life only to later on make something of themselves. All it takes is for the right catalyst to be at the right place at the right time.
Personally losers aren’t all that bad. Like WTJ said, don’t underestimate them. They make excellent cannon fodder and in the game of life, they are great pawns, some with good positioning in life. The trick is always to place them at the right place for the right moments. You can’t do that if you are that prejudiced over everyone you think are losers.
April 3rd, 2008 at 12:15 pm
People people people. You all misunderstood what i wrote. The two kinds of example that i give are totally loser. I dont underestimate them, it what makes them a loser. For the 1st example, if that person still keep himself in that kind of zone, he will always be a loser no matter what. Even there is power in him, he will still be a loser. For the 2nd example, how many of you think a gambler can be a winner? Dont tell me that he will be a god of gambler because it’s impossible for him. And he’s a loser. A people who always gamble and does not have a career or things that makes him sucessful dont you think he is a loser? Other than gambling, he does nothing.
People who is a loser and never wanting for changes, will remaind loser (that is what my article is about-conclusion of my article).
The kinds of people below who i dont think is a loser is:
1. People who went bankrupt (temporary loser) and alive to overcome it, and thrive again in later time
2. People who lose in competition (sports or whatevr competition). they will be movtivated by the defeat and come back winning in the next competition.
3. People (who is a loser) who are willing to step out from their zone, and venture into another zone and having sucess.
4. The list go on….
April 3rd, 2008 at 9:11 pm
they’re loser at the moment doesn’t mean that’s forever. There is this thing call personal growth, it depends on what they experienced.
October 31st, 2008 at 10:46 pm
Leave no comments for those losers.
Let them rot and die. LOL
They are just… not important.